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[windemere]

I think it's important to point out that my aunt and I had a talk (I totally haven't forgiven her, btw) in which we didn't argue. However, I managed to put my foot in it (when do I not) because I mentioned something that Mom should have passed on to her (they saw each other 3 weeks ago, for heaven's sake) and didn't and so now it looks like M is withholding information from her sister, and that road never ends well, let me tell you. And, of course, I end up in the middle. Because I always end up in the middle. Because even though I tell my Mother every single time we have a talk about her sister that I always end up in the middle, M promises it won't happen. And it always does. And then I say something that I didn't know I shouldn't have said and the whole thing goes pear shaped. This happens roughly four times a year (if I'm lucky).

Anyways, the aunt and I talked and I reminded her that I turned 30 in 17 (OMFG) months and that I plane to do SOMETHING AMAZING. Which, considering my life, means things like taking off to New Zealand for 6 months or cruising around South America to Antarctica or, you know, something crazy. But since I will be in the second year of my PhD, and taking more than a couple of weeks off is just not feasable, I'm narrowing the playing field to Something New. I mentioned diving. Then I mentioned Sardinia. Then she mentioned a liveaboard, and hey, I've never actually done that. So, that's the game plan for my 30th: a week aboard a diveboat in Sardinia and/or Corsica cave diving. And the really fun thing about dive trips with the aunt? They go well.

In other words, the best part about turning 30 will be being so caught up in everything that I forget I'm turning 30.

Now, back to the game plan for 29, which I a hell of a lot closer!

Comments

[zaftig46.livejournal.com]

Families... always fun. Glad you are talking to your aunt again.
Yes, 30 looms for me, too, though significantly sooner than for you. At least I will have submitted my thesis by then, and that's enough to celebrate! If anyone in my family thinks I should be more ambitious, then they ought to organize something for me - I will be exhausted!

[eldanna.livejournal.com]

I think handing in your thesis before your 30th is probably The Best Accomplishment Ever and never think otherwise!

[grey-wonderer.livejournal.com]

That is an excellent plan for thirty. Sorry about the drama with your Aunt. I find that here lately, all my family gives me is drama. I will be enjoying my New Year this year because it is the only holiday so far this year that hasn't involved 'arranging something' with the family! LOL

Good luck on figuring out what to do for number 29. I'm sure you'll think of something amazing.

Oh, and Happy New Year!

[eldanna.livejournal.com]

And to you! I'm enjoying a very quiet night in myself (for a change this week!).