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[windemere]

Well, shit.

Grandma has cancer. Though treatable. Supposedly. This is going to be the Christmas from hell.

I don't really deal with these kind of things very well. Mostly because I don't deal well with people who are crying or weeping or generally a wreck. My aunt is already a disaster, and she just found out. I feel guilty over the whole thing, again, because I never got outwardly upset when nana died, and I think my mother decided I must be a cold-hearted bitch or something.

Wonderful. Just bloody wonderful

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[chained2u2.livejournal.com]

I am sorry about your Grandma being ill. Just sit and listen to them cry. You don't need to say anything. Hold their hands and let them weep. Nod every once in awhile. I doubt that you're a cold-hearted bitch. Many people are uncomfortable in these situations.